Locked down due to patriarchy


Jun 6, 2020

An Urdu novel set in the time of Partition reminds us that apart from sexual violence, there are many subtle ways in which women’s agency is suppressed, particularly at a time when everyone is stuck indoors   

Saloni, a social sector professional, has been working from home for more than two months. It has not been the happy time that she expected it to be. She is staying at her sister Preeti’s home and helping her in cooking and other chores while simultaneously managing her work.

Soloni loves her sister and also admires her but after marriage, Saloni saw a change in her. Now Preeti seems more like their mother – very much absorbed in familial ties, no interest in politics, while Saloni has very strong views about the government’s handling of Covid-19, Shaheen Bagh and Delhi riots.

In their household, Saloni often enters into arguments about politics with Preeti’s husband but Preeti only listens passively. Before marriage, Preeti was working as a school teacher. Afterwards, she gave up her career to devote her energies to her husband and kids.

Saloni remembers her younger days, specific spaces in her home, her Bhumihar (landowning) family. She says there was an unstated division between what man can do and what women can do. The angan (courtyard) was a space where women and maid often spent their day while men occupied the hall, where most socialising used to happen. “Women rarely went to the hall. When there was a gathering, we used to go to collect empty tea-cups”, she says.

This true-life story is a reminder of Khadija Mastur’s Urdu novel Angan, which was published in 1962 and later translated twice – first by Neelam Hussain in 2001 as Inner Courtyard and in 2018 by Daisy Rockwell as Women’s Courtyard. Angan is a poignant tale of the shattering denouement of Partition that captures the less talked about enclosed space surrounded by rooms of the house and open to the sky.

Since we all are living in a public health crisis, though quite different from the Partition of the country, this novel is very relevant in revealing the impact of the crisis on women and relevance of spaces in a house.

This is a time when most of the family members are staying put throughout the day, putting a heavier load on women members. In the absence of house help, women are spending extra time cooking, cleaning and caring for others in this crisis. Indian women generally spend up to 353 minutes a day on household work while man spends up to 53 minutes only.

A lot of women therefore live a claustrophobic life in a family trapped inside the four walls of a house. Ironically, this is considered a safe space for women instead of a constraint on her freedom.

An important element in the novel was sexual violence in the family, which Mastur may or may not have intentionally touched as a subject. When Aliya’s cousin Jameel forced himself on her to kiss her, she couldn’t do anything at that time but that episode gave her the strength to crush her hidden affection for Jameel. She learnt to focus more on her studies and work.

The National Commission for Women says there has been a two-fold increase in gender-based violence across the country in March. When most of the cases go unreported and the perpetrator often is the husband, this situation looks grim. It serves as a reminder that a crisis situation affects women more than men.

Khadija Mastoor was a highly regarded Pakistani short story writer and novelist in Urdu literature // Photo: Wikipedia.org

The working man occupies a rather political space which is the hall in a house, where a lot of political discussions happen. The other rooms are generally spaces for eating, worshipping and discussing family matters.

The main character of the novel Aliya lives in fear of having to lead such a claustrophobic existence. She regards love and marriage as traps that lead to subjugation of women but has a sympathetic view about those who are part of this system. Mastur brilliantly limits the narrative of the story to the household’s spaces for females, despicting with piercing feminist eyes the impact of political lives of males on the household. These men have less interest in family and depicting women in as honest a way as possible.

The most remarkable part of this tale was that Mastur, unlike her contemporaries Bhisham Sahni, Yashpal, Ismat Chughtai and even Manto, contemplated the impact of Partition on a family with a seemingly personalised narrative which is highly political too. When Chammi, Aliya’s cousin, shows outright support for the Muslim League just to irritate her uncle, the entire family is antagonised.

Such partition politics mostly affected men in the family; women’s lives stayed unchanged in many families.

Mastur does not blame man alone for patriarchy. She sheds light on some extent of deep-seated patriarchy of the women characters. She depicted the brutal behaviour of Aliya’s mother and grandmother toward those who dared cross boundaries of culture and their beliefs. Male characters of her story are complicit; they don’t take responsibility for the wellbeing of the family. For them, politics of the outside world is more engrossing. The somewhat apathetic behaviour toward Asrar Miyan, low-born cousin of Aliya’s father, is an important ironic factor of family life.

Saloni is very different from the character Aliya. Aliya fails to find love in her life but Saloni has someone whom she loves. However, both are wary of the changes associated with marriage. In the last chapter of the novel, Aliya meets her cousin Safdar, who proposes marriage. She first agrees then demurs because Safdar had given up his ambitions and his political stand and decided to do business. Aliya never wants such a husband who will give her a big house and car but not dream of a better polity. One can argue now that she then wanted a man like her father (a person who gave primacy to his political beliefs over family). Well, that’s a matter of interpretation so integral to good literature.

Mastur captures the predicament of women in a time of crisis which is different from horrors like rape and violence that her other contemporaries exposed. Amit the grim portent of Covid-19 and its life-threatening presence, such perspectives are often ignored.

(Names have been changed to protect identity)

(Cover: Unlike her contemporaries, Khadija contemplated the impact of Partition on a family with a seemingly personalised and highly political narrative // Photo: Mayank)